Body is yours to own, not others to tame

There is this problem that every girl faces in her lifetime, regardless of how she looks - thin ,thick, curvy or busty, it does bother when people advice you to lose weight or tell you not to wear certain type of clothing because your cellulitis and stretchmarks are visible or tell you that certain type of clothing are not meant for your body structure… my question is why
does it bother us so much ?has anyone thought through that ?.. the answer is very simple … we are not comfortable in our own bodies nd skin … the reason is we are raised in a conditioned environment where it says if you look chubby you are considered ugly or like if your too skinny you are ugly or if you look dark your not up to the mark of the so called beauty standards set by the so called society … how many girls or woman out there can say that they love their body and they love their beautiful flaws?? How many of them can confidently wear a dress thats so called not meant for your body type and feel confident enough to carry on the outfit? Not many … we are so keen to impress the society that we forget to give importance and prioritise our happiness .

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We lack self acceptance and our minds are so fixed to certain set of thoughts that we need to look a certain way to be beautiful or feel beautiful. People will keep saying hateful comments on your body and your flaws but you have the power to be immune to it. You have a choice and choose wise when you start accepting your body and your flaws, none of this will bother you because you have conquered your mind and you be like fuck it ! I don’t really care of what you comment and none of it matters anymore.
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Everyone’s body is unique in its own way, beautiful in its own way … own that,love that and be proud of it … beacuse chubby or thin ,cellulite or stretch mark you are beautiful, you are mesmerising your are confident, you are carrying yourself the best way … never let body shaming get to you. Never let your body define you. Never give up on your uniqueness based on what people say. Becoming size zero ,underweight overweight ,none matters at the end of the day. You matter the most. Your happiness matters the most. Never let your size judge you for anything because it’s just a number. It will oscillate till you live but time once passed can’t be brought back. Choose your own happiness and live to the fullest :blush:

                                              - Dr.Monisha 

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