10 Reasons Women Have The Right To Breastfeed In Public (Without Stigma)

10 Reasons Women Have The Right To Breastfeed In Public (Without Stigma)

Editor’s Note: This week, Youth Ki Awaaz has launched the campaign #FeedLoveNotStigma to fight off stigma against breastfeeding in public. It’s time to question the status quo, share our stories out loud, and demand safe, clean public spaces for breastfeeding! Scroll till the end to find out how you can join in.

When was the last time you saw a mother breastfeeding her baby in public? Maybe somewhere on public transport, maybe in a park, a restaurant. Did you notice the way people around her reacted? Some of them may have averted their gaze, some may have covered their kids eyes, their boyfriend’s eyes, their own eyes! Some may have even approached her and asked her to leave! This is the reality of so many nursing moms all over the word, and we just can’t let this fly. Women have a right to breastfeed in public without stigma, and here are 9 reasons why:

1: A baby’s hunger can’t be determined according to your ‘comfort’.
No. You will not make a baby wait until the mother escapes to a secluded place. What is so awkward, uncomfortable, or improper about a mother taking care of her child’s needs?

2: If you have a right to eat in public, so does her baby.
There’s a double standard here. Your golgappas in a park vs nourishing a child? In her powerful spoken word poem, Hollie McNish talks of how mums have even been forced to go to restroom to feed. Can you imagine eating in such an unsanitary place?

3: This is an important aspect of our right to occupy spaces equally.
If you still hold the idea that ‘the public’ is a males-only zone, it’s time to join the 21st century. Women are out there, in male-dominated arenas, smoothening them into gender-equal spaces. We all have a right to public spaces, and moms should be able to feed their babies without fear or discrimination.

4: Just because she’s in public doesn’t mean she’s public property.
You know, in the 21st century, people have learnt to stop objectifying women’s bodies. That means that a woman in public is not an object for you to own and control, so mind your own business!

5: motherhood is not a secret, shameful affair.
Even in a country where goddesses are referred to as mothers, that puts mothers on a pedestal, that, hell, even holds the problematic belief that a woman’s life goal is to have a child – even in a country of all this, we wrinkle our noses at the mothers who are, you know, doing what mothers do for their kids.

6: So you can get used to the fact that breasts aren’t for your entertainment.
All of us have been fed the glossy, photoshopped, billboard-sized lie that women’s bodies exist to be looked at, to be enjoyed, to possess.

7: It’s as natural a process as walking, speaking or breathing in public.
Let’s not kid ourselves. Breastfeeding is a mammalian characteristic. Across species, this is how mothers get their kids healthy and kickin’. It’s something that bodies do. Why single it out?

Image source: Tareq Salahuddin/Flickr.
8: You’re not a sniggering little 12-year-old, grow up.
I mean, maybe puberty-ridden kids reading about reproduction for the first time might be caught off guard, but if you’ve move far ahead from your adolescent years and still think breastfeeding is weird, then you still have maturing to do.

9: Like beauty, shame is in the eye of the beholder.
For so many moms, feeding their child is a beautiful, caring bonding process. There is nothing to be ashamed or afraid of. The person who should be ashamed is the one try to humiliate a nursing mother.

10: The ‘male gaze’ doesn’t get to decide what’s ‘appropriate’ in public.
Women’s bodies aren’t for men (and other prying eyes) to look at, assess, judge, and discard or censor at their convenience! That attitude comes from a magical place called ‘male entitlement’, and it’s about time we destroyed it.

Join the campaign! Throughout this week, we want to hear what you feel. Here’s how:

Answer our polls on Facebook, Twitter and Instagram about breastfeeding in public.

Hold up a sign that says #FeedLoveNotStigma and share it on Instagram. Tag @youthkiawaaz, so we can share it ahead.

Login to Youth Ki Awaaz and publish a story on why the stigma around breastfeeding in public needs to be removed!