How to avoid relatives who degrade and insult you? My relatives are comparing me with my cousins who are in IT and how much ever I try to make them understand medicine is different they don’t understand it. They say my younger brother is earning but i am not. My cousin recently got a mbbs seat so I told him to think twice before joining and they started telling things like I am jealous and made a huge issue as I told them I want my books to refer during pg preparation. Is owning my own books to read , a wrong thing? He got a seat in government college and the fees is negligible. They say for i am jealous of him that’s why I won’t give him my books. I did my ug in government medical college and got a non-clinical seat in a big government medical college in my 1st attempt but I wanted to give another try as my dream branch was something else. But, my relatives and my mother are constantly nagging me to join a job and not at all supporting me. All they do is make me feel bad by insulting me. How to deal with unsupportive parents and relatives? Why do non medicos rarely understand us?
I think move out …join a job n study side by side
As long as u r dependent on smone…they wil keep sayin such stuff…
N ignoring is not easy as it sounds…it does have a mental impact…like u just cant shut ur ears n eyes…
Better join a pvt medical college as Npjr with minimal workload and stay in the hostel provided. Block all relatives or even toxic family members if needed and study peacefully to achieve ur dream branch.
PS -you definitely need huge determination for doing this .