There are more incidents of suicide in recent days… Does it mean people have become Cowards- Never- The most strongest decision by the most courageous person is SUICIDE…
This write up is to bring to the Light- IF YOU HAVE SUCH A STRONG COURAGE TO DIE- YOU HAVE THE BEST PLATFORM TO LIVE…
Right from School students to Mega movie stars we have seen the news of death of many and many people… Let me talk about the medicos and PG’s ending their life pathetically for some silly issues which they will realise one day if they survived as nothing…
Dear Post graduates- you are one such a big warrior who have crossed crores of students who could not achieve the dream you achieved as MBBS…
Also there are 1.5 lakh plus people preparing for PG entrance and you reached this destination overriding all… This PG what you have achieved is your hard work and your perseverance past 10 years or more. Never think of ending of your life for things which happens in your PG period… Its a just a temporary stop where you will be out in 2-3 more years and you have enormous learning opportunities…
I have found various causes among PG students during their course to take up this Strong decision.
- Professors and Assistant Professors Bullying you or showing Partiality against you:
- Let me ask you one simple question. Is that Idiot who is showing partiality going to live with you until your last breath. Why should you get upset for his words… It’s mostly the Brilliant and Beautiful students who get all these problems… So when somebody irritates you please remember you are above him many steps and that idiot is unable to tolerate you … let him be a Senior PG or a Professor… They may form a group and insult you or irritate you based on Sex, Caste, Religion, Or some of your mild weakness you may have… Don’t worry , whichever they are bullying you is the ACTUAL STRONG Part of you - please remember it… they are feared of that strong part and trying to pull you down… Just ignore those idiots , go to your room and scold them as much as badly and have their Photograph and kick them with your shoes- who knows one day you will grow to the level you can do it LIVE on them…
- Unable to learn skills, or techniques:
- I have been wondering why some PGs always worried about not getting chances on Procedures or surgeries or there is poor case load and getting depressed of unable to learn… What you have to learn in your PG is to have the FIRE to LEARN … that’s all… Never expect to become a Master when you come out… You and even the Top ranked AIIMS PG will come out only with 10-20% of real knowledge needed to practice… Every field is never ending learning field and you will have enormous platforms to learn if you have the " FIRE TO LEARN"… If you want to learn everything in Post graduation- you must do it for 10 years minimum in Indian Scenarios.
- LOVE FAILURES:
- Are you thinking you are the one who lost the boy or girl whom you loved the most. Find out the reason why he/she left you- there will be a real weakness in that part and make yourself strong in that part… Every love failure that happened has definitely made one person strong and courageous enough to face the world… Love failures are part and parcel of everyone’s life… If everyone had to die- half the population would have been eradicated by this time…Remember this first… Are you ready to rectify the reason why he/she left you genuinely ?
- Failed in a PG exam or fear of Failing or Dissertation thesis getting rejected:
- By failing in Exam you are not going to lose anything except adding a degree 6 months before… Failed Postgraduates are the Busy and Most Active practitioners in Future… You won’t believe Unless you go and verify in your town… The Most failed candidate is the Active Practitioner in every city… So don’t worry of you being failed by a senior professor.
At the same time- there is a limit in Post graduate period… We need not bend every time. Once the threshold is beyond- you must never ever hesitate to fight back like a LION and Tear the person into pieces… In this war you may lose your credential or name- But definitely your name will be there in History and you will be the last person to be irritated or Pushed to this level by the Other one.
A PG student has no other reason to die apart from the above… Everyone in life will one or the other day had real suicidal thoughts… there can be no one who can say in this world - "I NEVER HAD A SUICIDAL THOUGHT "…
“Those who had went to such a level of suicide and left the world are warriors and those who had overcome such a thought of Suicide are the LEGENDARY ACHIEVERS”
Dr. Rajamahendran MS, MRCS, MCh
Author- Surgery Sixer
National faculty- Surgery